Governance in Practice is Human - It lives where formal structures and processes meet power dynamics and hierarchy, cultural norms and group behaviours, the Chair/CEO’s tone, organisational history and unspoken rules — and the real level of psychological safety in the room.
I’ve learned the hard way that power does things to some people. They lose themselves. They grip onto control in ways that are unhealthy — and sometimes unsafe. I’ve seen it in others. And in my younger days, I caught myself edging toward it too.
We don’t just show up as our role — we show up as our accumulated experiences. I know I do. And if you’re honest, you probably do too. That 4-year-old version of me? She learned quickly how to read a room.
We talk about governance, culture, performance. But what about the cost of environments that shut down human emotion? I once worked in an environment so brutal, my leader told me to go home—or go cry in the stairwell—when I showed any emotion. This was quite a few years ago now, back when I was still a junior in the governance world—trying to do the right thing, raise the right flags, and find my feet in systems that didn’t always reward integrity.